Wednesday, 23 October 2013


Last week I got into a heated debate with a former school mate of mine over supporting that gay people should be allowed to be who and what they are. He is a christian so of cause he had his reservations about the whole thing. I have nothing against "saved" people but when they become judgemental it cheeses me off. One thing he emphasised on was that we were working for the powers of "DARKNESS" if we supported the gay and lesbian community, it's bad enough that they have to face discrimination from their families and communities. They do not need the added pressure from the christian community, aren't christians supposed to love everybody? cause at the end of the day GOD is love and there must be a reason he made gay and lesbian people the way they are and it is not up to us to decide how they should be or what they become. I have gay and lesbian friends and I love them just as they are because they never question my sexuality why should I question theirs?. Do not live your life trying to be what people expect you to be rather be who you are and embrace being "YOU". It's cool if you are a dude and you like dudes or if you are girl who likes girls ain't nothing to it. We are all human so them judgemental christians can take a one way ticket straight to "HELL".#GAY KINDA LOVE

Wednesday, 16 October 2013

Bitter sweet

We all have things we like or love like gadgets and accessories.Today we gonna talk about the most unattractive accessory and that is "THE SUGAR DADDY", he buys you everything and anything you ask for and in the beginning it's like you're his entire world,he seems to be living for your smile right? but have you ever stopped and asked yourself "what's in it for him?.He loves you right? otherwise why would he spend all his money showering you with expensive "gifts" but what you do not know is that man is only buying his way to your "GOODIES" and after that he walks away like nothing happened.He chews  you up and spits you out like you're poison in his mouth. You think that man will leave his wife for you that will never happen to him you're just another piece of meat or sex toy and even if he was to leave his wife and kids for you,he will do the same thing to you as in trade you in for a newer and younger model once he tires of you. There is nothing sweet about a sugar daddy, he lives a bitter taste in your mouth and maybe a disease if you're one of the unlucky ones.Never settle for anything less than the best and play second fiddle to none,If you're tired of being the side chick GO out there and get yourself a man lil Missy ,SOMEONE who is yours alone not yours,hers and ours.There is no upside to having a sugar daddy because you spend half your time looking over your shoulder worried that his wife might come after with a sjambok you will forever bear the scars of what he has done to you physically and emotionally cause after he is done with you,you're left damaged and insecure about who and what you were before he came along and HONEY don't nobody want "DAMAGED GOODS". Stick to your school boy or varsity boy sweethearts and don't fall for the oldest trick in the book because "SUGAR DADDIES" are all about "HIT AND RUNS" so the next time some "OLD DUDE" tells you he loves you or even looks your way in a way you don't like put your finger in his face and tell him to "GET LOST"  cause you know what he is all about.

Thursday, 10 October 2013


The topic of teenagers and sex isn't new heck it's been talked about so many times that we just to ignore any sex related topics because we feel it's being shoved down our throats right? well am here with something a little different today,what I want to say is if you're gonna start giving up them goodies then make sure it is with someone who wants to be there the morning after,someone who wants to stick around till the end not someone who is on the way out.Remember it's all about you and never walk down that road if you are not ready to...explore your body on your own before letting someone else venture into your body and never ever do"IT" because you want him to stay or to love you because if he loves you ,he will wait until you're ready to give yourself over to him and he will stick around until you mature enough to start having a sex life. Sex is a beautiful thing when done for the right reasons and with the right person so my friends wait for the right guy to come along and do not rush into anything ever. With all that said have a lovely week